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I currently have 23,704 photos and 2,728 videos on my PC. I try to sort that out and clean it up. Many photos and videos have to be deleted.
I was watching some old videos and to my surprise I came across something that shows a hand and a voice can be heard, in the hand I noticed a few small plastic bags with some pills in them. The voice said, "I found that in a drawer here in the bedroom." That was all. I know who the voice belongs to, because it was precisely during that period that I heard that particular voice several times a day through telephone conversations and video calls. And that's why I'm one hundred percent sure who that voice was, mainly because the person in question sent this video to me herself!
I know that there is a law, a law in the land where this person was at that time and probably still is. This law prescribes that a person who is aware of a crime is obliged to report it immediately to the authorities designated for that purpose, failing which a prison sentence of one year can be imposed.
<"Article 131 A person has intentionally failed to report an offense referred to in Articles 111,112,113,114,115,116,117,118,119,120,121,122,123,124,125,126,127 paragraph 1,128 paragraph 1 and article 129 are charged with a prison sentence of not more than 1 (one) year or with a fine not exceeding Rp. 50,000,000.00 (fifty million rupiah).">
I thought: "I'm going to get advice from my confidant-advisor-lawyer". So I did, I went there and my lawyer first wanted to determine whether there was indeed a video like the one above, so I showed it (laptop).
My lawyer had an important question, he asked, "What is the reason for showing this video to others?" "Well, I don't really have any compelling or important reason." I answered.
And maybe the most important question he asked me was: “What does your heart say?”.
I'm worrying, I can't bring myself to get it done because I don't know what the outcome (Legal) could be.
I'm afraid of that, I know what it's like to be locked up, that's something I wouldn't wish on anyone and something I would never do to anyone, whoever the person in question is.
My lawyer said, "Destroy, delete that video, you do not need it." And that's right, I do not need it!
But I still have in mind a quote from someone who was very close to me for a period of time, who said to me: "I never delete anything, I keep it in an archive because maybe I'll need it again later, maybe I can or I will use it again later”.
With that in my mind I have put the video in a “Secure folder” for the time being, because indeed, you never know.
Look putting someone in danger of possibly being arrested and/or imprisoned I don't want to take that risk, I don't want that responsibility, I never want that on my conscience.
There are certain people who would or have already done so. We all know that. I remember a young lady who is involved in social media and in particular specializes in celebrities, movie stars, singers etc., in Indonesia.
This young lady received a startling video from someone with the request or idea to post this video on her Instagram account.
It was a video showing a certain scene of a celebrity performing a pornographic action together with an unknown man, recognition was possible but it could also have been staged by a so-called "look alike", we do not know.
The young lady in question did so, perhaps on request, anyhow she posted the video on Instagram.
Many people who saw this video, the young lady had many followers, recognized or thought to recognize who it was at least they thought to recognize someone well-known.
Such a thing is, of course, very detrimental to whoever it was thought to be. Of course, the artist said it was not about her and reported the case to the local police with details of what she believed to be the culprit.
The result was a lawsuit and the artist who filed this case together with her manager demanded that the young lady who posted the video on her Instagram account be punished accordingly.
As a result, the “guilty” was convicted and sent to jail.
Mean and heartless, she could also have publicly demanded and accepted the apologies, then the result would have been less violent for all involved and sooner forgotten by the general public, this is called amicably appropriate.
However, due to the fact that there was a lot of publicity around the lawsuit, it ultimately turned out negatively for everyone because many people still think and even think they know for sure who that video was about.
This artist has also repeatedly made threats to her ex-lover's new girlfriend as well as to a lesser extend to the ex-lover himself.
She sent criminals to his house to beat him up (didn't work out) and, but I'm not sure it seems to be an open secret that partly because of this particular artist the ex-lover got later into serious trouble.
Maybe the products that were in her hand before, maybe she put those things there by herself, who knows? Only she knows how and what. And God because she told me a couple of times "God will see everything".
Mean, you don't do such a thing, at least I can't bring myself to do it! But yes, a celebrity may think otherwise, heartless!
I personally have often heard her say: “In my country I have power, I get everything done, whatever it is”. "If I want someone dead, one phone call is enough." Maybe a bluff, but I've heard her say it a couple times. Yes, she was angry and heartbroken at that time.
What kind of person are you because of an unclear video, let's leave it up to you whether that video contained the truth or not, let's keep it a gossip? But what kind of person are you to pull a young woman away from her family and let put her in jail.
When those two sister-prosecutors went to dinner together after the court decision to celebrate, what were they thinking? "We've arranged it, again a few people unhappy." We don't know, but I think it's kind of sadistic self-gratification.
If there is a God then she will surely be punished, abortion three times and take someone away from her family, maybe that's why she will never get pregnant and never really happy. God sees everything she said to me.
They may pretend that they are happy in their marriage for example, but are they really? Is their Karma, okay? Do they know what the law of Karma is like? Do they even know what Karma is? Let's take a look at karma.
Karma is divided into twelve laws as follows:
1 - The Great Law of Karma
2 - The Law of Creation
3 - The Law of Humility
4 - Law of Growth
5 - Law of Mirrors
6 - Law of Synchronicity
7 - Law of Direction and Motive
8 - Law of Will
9 - The Law Is Here Now
10 - Law of Change
11 - The Law of Patience
12 - The Law of Values and Improvement
The two ladies, the “Superstar” Sang Putri (Princess) and the “Manager” Sang Adik (younger sister) should read the book written by D. Zantamata. They can give me their address and I will send it as a gift, as a souvenir, memento of Papa Laurens…
I don't know who, I have a hunch but not sure who is behind the many attempts to hack my Instagram account (last time on 07/26/2021) and many-many times before that.
Hacking my account is difficult because I have a complicated password and use the second or double identifier.
If I (or someone else) wants to log in to my Instagram account, I receive a text message on my mobile phone with a code that is different every time. I can only log in with my password in combination with the code of the SMS. As long as others don't have or manage my phone number, they can never log into my account. I think that's a good and safe system. But it is regularly tried to hack me, if I only knew who then I could ask what they want and maybe I'll give it voluntarily, who knows.
By the way, all my accounts such as Instagram, YouTube as well as my website are on public so anyone can view, read and if they wish leave comments on those accounts. No secrets. I have nothing to hide and everything I have ever posted on Instagram, published on YouTube or posted on my website I stand behind it for 100 percent and will remain so no matter what, because it is based on the full truth and nothing else then that.
I don't want to bring damage to anyone, do not want to bring anyone down, no, by no means. My aim has been to expose the truth about what happened and to protect myself and my image. Because the gossip was not very pleasant for me but much more unpleasant for the lady in question.
There were too many untruths circulating and I tried to refute that and if I look at the reactions indeed I succeeded.
Like many, me too saw RB's interview with CNN Indonesia. It was obvious to me from that conversation that RB, yes, the husband of, had not been well informed or had been misunderstood or was misinformed. He was not aware of the facts and I therefore I can advise him to read all chapters including this epilogue on my public website <www.Liohk.com>
I am writing this epilogue by popular demand and to once again emphasize clearly why and for whom I have published this story (eight chapters).
I want to consider this the end of the story Sang Putri versus myself. Of course, there will be a reaction from the person or persons who appear in my story and if necessary, I will answer that, we'll see. Maybe via Instagram, YouTube or my website.
I want to concentrate on a book I am writing whose concept is ready except for a few additional extensions, it is about my 'Indonesian' period from February 1992 to January 2007. That exciting story will probably appear in book form and be sold through bookstores and the internet such as Amazon and others, but also as a digital book (e-book).
My wish is to publish that book in three languages: Dutch, Indonesian and English. Of course, the concept is in Dutch. The translation still gives me a lot of headaches. It is not easy to publish a book, especially under your own direction, there are many snags and many barriers to overcome.
A big problem is the translation from Dutch to Indonesian, words can be translated, even whole sentences can be translated, but to transfer the feeling, the expression, the emotions, tensions and so on from one language to another that is not simple, that is extremely difficult.
I'm looking for someone who is perfectly bilingual, Dutch and Indonesian, hard to find apart from the cost. I don't want to work with a professional agency, I'm looking for private persons who can and want to help me.
I'm already working since 2015 on that book, so it's about time it got published.
In 2020 I posted screenshots of a message I received on WhatsApp on August 8, 2018 and then something else on September 1, 2018, among other things, how could they say I was lying about that? This was hard evidence. I spent a long time thinking about what the two letters CK and KC could mean.
Usually, people use initials to refer to someone, so the first letters of the first and last name, but I couldn't figure it out.
Suddenly I remembered that in Arab countries people do not read and write from left to right, but exactly the other way around, from right to left. I didn't find out and the lady in question didn't tell me.
With all my worrying I also thought of Barack Obama and that's how I came up with the name Barack.
After some searching, I got information from a well-informed source that my adopted daughter had regular meetings in Los Angeles with a man whose last name matched, and through yet other sources of information and social media channels I soon learned who was meant by KC and later CK.
And my suspicion has come true, everyone knows that by now. Those are just facts and I still don't understand why people have always denied that.
It was sometimes told that a previous relationship of CK had not yet broken of and of course as a gentleman you should do that before entering into another commitment.
That could be the reason that the relationship was kept secret until September 20, 2018, the day of the big concert. Where the first meeting officially took place. Which, in reality, had happened much earlier. So, it's a white lie. They are forgiven… or not?
In the meantime, people kept trying to hack my Instagram account, sometimes even seven times in a row in one night (MIT). My family was harassed, I was harassed via WhatsApp and by phone, a lawyer was sent to me who forced me to remove all content from Instagram and YouTube, I had to deal with beautiful Indonesian ladies who treated me in all kinds of (erotic and even pornographic) ways tried to provoke Facebook Messenger, Instagram DM, video calls and so on. That was the reason I was suddenly not very active on social media. But I came back, and how!
On September 20, 2018, a big show was planned: 10 years anniversary, the story of a Princess.
I was invited as a VIP, first row next seat to Princess’s mother, Princess also called Wanita beragenda or Sang Putri.
Of course, that was an intense and busy time for my Princess, I understood that.
My friend who previously invited me to spend some time with him in Indonesia, advised to come and to stay, live and maybe work in Indonesia. Said without hesitation: “Come, stay with me, I will arrange a airline ticket for you.” And he did, Garuda business class, sleeping soundly and not being bothered by jet lag.
He offered me to show me around Indonesia and to find out whether I could and wanted to settle in that lovely country. He offered me to stay with him until the big show should take place at the 20st of September that year and I accepted his invitation, sure.
I informed my Princess that I got a ticket and accommodation from my friend and she said: “OK good for you, happy you”.
However, when I was in Jakarta and didn't contact her the very same moment she became insulted and angry and thought I was in cahoots with my friend, her ex, ‘who didn't want to take her back’.
I came also to Jakarta to attend her Big Show and of course to have some sort of holiday with my friend, well that didn't go down well. I heard nothing again from the Princess, and of course I was also too proud to ask how the necessary VIP ticket was going and so the time passed until September 20th and beyond. Her show took place but without me!
Unfortunately, our father-daughter relationship came to an end that time. I couldn't (in my opinion) do anything about it and she (in her opinion) couldn't do anything about it either.
I always thought she wanted to avoid a confrontation of me as her ex's best friend with her new love RB. Understandable, I was part of the camp of her ex love, I was and still am part of her past. But… wasn't I the adopted daddy the best in the world who she loves so much?
It all has to do with character, mentality and the need. Like a little spoiled child, who has a toy but the next day something else in his or her eyes is more beautiful and interesting and absolutely wants to have it, new in and old out, so it went it also in this case, no longer needed, just throw it away… Papa Angkat? Who is that? That's how it went and that's how it is.
However it’s I big shame and I feel it as insulting that she has the courage to say in some TV interviews that she hardly know me and that is was my idea to call me papa, shame to you Princess, I wait for your apologizes, not one but many.
Please take me back, immediately exchanged for another, hopefully better, sweeter, richer, “Take me back ayank” to “I love you so much”, small step. And in fact, it happened what I have told and advised her several times before, I said, "The best medicine for a broken heart is to find someone else". That eventually happened, maybe she listened to me after all and learned something from me. Or the affair was not as new as it seems to be.
And now this is the end of the story. I don't want to add anything more, I realize and hope that many people have enjoyed my story but I also realize that it may have caused shame, sadness and annoyance.
I know many people disagree with me.
1 – They don't believe me
2 – They are not my supporters
3 – They hate me
4 – They don't think it's necessary to reveal all this
But on the other hand, there are many who agree with me.
1 – They believe me
2 – They support me
3 – They love me
4 – They appreciate that I told it all
5 – They are happy that there is clarity now
As I have already mentioned I am working on a book, the draft (manuscript) is practically finished, I am correcting it now and hopefully will be ready soon.
After that it still has to be checked language and style (editing), cover has to be designed etc.
It would then be read by some impartial people not known to me, to avoid emotional evaluation, to rate the story (good or bad or bad), after which it could go to the printer.
Then distribute it. It's a really big job to get it right, I've been working on it at long intervals for about six years.
The most important thing comes after that because I want to have it translated into Indonesian. The whole is about 120,000 words and a good translation is not easy because it is best done by someone who is perfectly bilingual… and try to find them is also not so easy.
In addition, but by no means least, I have to find ways to finance the whole thing, if that doesn't work then I will more or less be forced to consider an e-book so that people can read it online against a fair fee.
I am open to suggestions in any area.
ACKNOWLEDGMENT
Thank you to everyone who read my story and hope you enjoyed it.
The whole will remain available for the time being for those who have not yet read it or might want to read it again.
Many thanks to the people who helped me with advice, comments and additions.
Thanks for the comments, thanks for the many encouraging messages of support and thanks for the many 'likes'.
Many thanks especially to who advised me so well, kept me in line, encouraged me and helped me extremely well to correct or supplement my Indonesian translation where and whenever necessary.
Thanks to my friend who was so patient.
Also, many thanks to the Princess, who gave me the copy and the inspiration to write this story, without her it would not have been possible.
Happy Birthday (41) Princess on the 1st day of Augustus.
MANY THANKs TO EVERYONE (Including those I forgot to mention)
THE END
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CHAPTER -8-
The Final
This is a summary of what I have said about my own dealings with Princess or vice versa however you want to look at it. Of course, I was blinded by her persona, fame, who she was and what she was, her appearance-her behavior and many other things.
She had and she may still have the ability to wind someone around her finger, she understands the art of putting people to her hand, call it a certain charm that she can play whenever she wants.
Especially someone like me and my daughter- who is still under her influence to this day- and adores her like few others.
Princess has the ability to use people, in principle she doesn’t do much herself- everything was and still is arranged and done for her. And.... I've been a part of that, too. Of course, I am not happy about that afterwards, but that is how it turned out. I don't know what got into me then.
The main reason is that all this time I have been convinced that she was sincere, that she was truly heartbroken and that she would more or less not be able to live without my friend.
I lived in the belief that Princess needed me, Princess needed a father figure she could talk to, who comforted her in her grief and advised her paternally. I do believe up to this point that
Princess is always looking for someone like me, an older person who can take her natural father's place and I probably lent myself excellently for that at the time.
I understood her and was willing to listen to her at any circumstance and at any time.
And as an important side effect, of course, was that I had been friends with the man who adore Princess or a longtime, at least at that time.
Did she play a game? Was she really so filled with love for the man who couldn't (anymore) get his?
For a long time I was convinced that Princess was sincere and I was sure and also believed that Princess did not want to lose my friend during that period, maybe she longed for the person he is but certainly she longed for the wonderful free-spirited time she spent with him.
Travel, luxury hotels, maybe make good love, in short be pampered as only my friend can and still can probably.
I have also lived all along in the belief that Princess considered me 100% a father, although not a true father of origin but an adopted father. That was also what she confirmed to me many times both verbally by phone and in writing via WhatsApp chat.
At the end of 2018, I started to realize that she used me exclusively, as a pawn in her struggle to reclaim lost love. Or perhaps rather to reclaim what she initially thought she possessed but which she lost out of her direct influence. Although she ended the relationship with my friend, before she had said so, she immediately regretted it again.
Forced by her pride, Princess said the decisive words that she ended the relationship. Of course she thought that my friend with hanging paws would come back to her, but unfortunately for Princess he did not!
In her thinking, my boyfriend was a potential spouse, perhaps because there was nothing better available and Princess herself realized that time was starting to run out, her age, according to many, was already in her 40s but two years less, according to her.
Of course, I occasionally hesitated especially at the times when my friend warned me and explained to me what Princess was thinking and what her character was like, but then I didn't want to listen, in other words I heard what he said but I didn't listen, didn't let it get through to me, I didn't see it, I was blinded, I believed her.
And so it was with my daughter Lauren, witness some messages she sent sang putri. She too was wonderfully influenced by Princess and she too let herself be used and in my opinion that is still the case.
She too will one day experience what Princess is really like. Why wasn't my daughter (they call each other Sister and Babe) invited to Princess's wedding ceremony? A nurse should be the least present. And why was a distant acquaintance who lives in Germany invited? So an acquaintance was chosen over an adopted sister? Think about that.
Princess is not only an artist on stage, not only in her songs, no she is always like that, it is ingrained in her character and there is nothing to be done about it, no salvation possible. Everything she does, everything she says, there's an intention behindit.
I'm not saying she's bad, she's become like that, she's made that way by her environment, because of circumstances she wasn't born that way. Dand don't think she's stupid, no on the contrary she's particularly smart to a certain extent, in a certain area, in her field, to theuniqueest...
There are many (angry?) tongues that claim that my friend was arrested by the police at the end of 2018 for possessing narcotics by betrayal of Princess. I don't know if that's true, I can't confirm or deny that.
Given her threats to my friend and to his then new love, that might be conceivable, but I cannot confirm or deny that either, I cannot find any evidence of it.
I remember once Princess made a video recording of her holding somethin illegal in her hands. I didn't see her face, but I heard her voice. Princess said in that video that she had found the product. I saw the video because Princess sent it to me, I immediately deleted that video and I remember also advising Princess to do that.
Maybe that was the moment Princess said to me that she didn't delete anything but kept everything in the archive because she might need it again later or could use it against someone.
I understand that Princess, out of spite, forwarded that video to various other people who were known to her at the time. After that she blocked everyone. That was a very mean action by her and also indicative of her character and with consequences for her karma.
I don't know if Princess knew who that product belonged to, but by law she should have reported it to the agency designated for it. According to the law in Indonesia, you are also punishable (Pasal 131 UU No.35 dari tahun 2009 tentang Narkotika) if you DO NOT report it.
I can't find any clues as to whether or not Princess had a hand in my friend's arrest (Thn 2018 bln desember).
She was regularly very angry and capable of anything but whether Princess would be capable of something like this I don't know.
Can someone even though it is the rejected super in love person be able to be able to do something so low. It could be we may never know.
Although I have heard a story in the past that someone who was still (drugs) owed money to a supplier (also of drugs) was reported to the police. Who, as a result, was indeed arrested and sentenced to a long prison sentence.
Vengeance can go a long way, especially in love. People are killed by jealous rejected lovers. So why shouldn't someone be betrayed for far-reaching jalousie? What turns out to be a fact and coincidence is that the commander of the unit that my friend arrested was and may still be very good acquaintance of Princess.
But again and explicitly, I do not know that and have not been able to find any evidence of it. I have received regular messages containing these claims from my followers.
To be honest, I hope that what is claimed in this case by many followers and netizen is not the truth, it would only place a greater burden on Princess's conscience.
In my chapters on my website www.Liohk.com I have told in good conscience about my situation with Princess.
I've had it how we got to know each other, how I got a huge sense of pity, how she manipulated me, how she had me in her grip, how she made me do things especially as far as my friend was concerned.
How she made horrible threats through me, especially to my friend and mainly with regard to my friend's new love, which she even threatened to kill. How she confessed to me three times and asked to address my friend about it in her name.
How she told me her sister's 'marriage' trick, how she had her 'best' friend make a video call with me, had this video conversation recorded and had it posted in its entirety on the internet, how she had me falsely accused of serious offences during this video call.
How she and her sister manipulated my daughter who turned against me and drove through a wedge between me and my daughter as well as her mother my ex. How she tried to manipulate her fans by making fake visits abroad to doctors to supposedly have her vocal cords, throat examined but with which she was actually trying to turn a wheel on her fans and maybe her family why she was abroad so often. How she made me pay to grow tulips in her name, how she made me pay for the consequences of organizing an entire medical team of voice and throat experts and then at the time of the appointment she did not want to show up without looking or blushing and left me with the consequences and many other things. Such as when my friend failed everyone who had been good and kind to her, in whose house she was always welcome but then immediately blocked everyone at all possibilities, people who were kind and nice to her, without regard for the person everyone was blocked.
I told you how she cheekily replied to my DM which she has deleted (why didn't she send it to my daughter?) Maybe because she wanted to stop me from duplicating that message. How she blocked me everywhere while I've been her absolute confidante for a long time, her daddy. Me actually dragged her through that dark period in her life. Until she dropped me like a concrete block.
Meanwhile, I regularly see posts about Princess on Instagram showing that she still hasn't said goodbyeto her manipulative and lying life - despite the factthat she's married to what seems to be a serious and sensible husband.
I'm not allowed to say it and maybe it's better that I don't turn it in, but I think it would be wise for Princess to swap for a visit to a good psychiatrist instead of the earlier candy trips around the world - mainly with my friend.
Princess loves Los Angeles, but that's where the best Psychiatrists in the world sit, all the world stars are treated there. And Princess is also a kind of world star in Indonesia and beyond.
I have always gone out of my way to help Princess with what she wanted, I have followed my feelings and made a lot work, as a good adoptedfather. I tried everything and my daughter did her best.
It didn't work out but I now know that it wasn't me but her terribly unpredictable and incomprehensible nature and views of life and especially of how to deal with people or in her case how not to interact with people .
She's not too old yet, she still looks good she still has a future ahead of her but... she still has a lot to learn, especially when it comes to the real values of life.
Outward appearances that everyone and therefore she too sooner or later falls through the basket. You can't keep performing a show in life. At some point, you can't help but show your real face.
I hope her marriage holds up and hope she's not married just to be married and show the outside world that she's married.
I hope that somewhere far from the inside she has a real feeling and that she will show that, also to the people shehas damaged and lied to with her behavior with a constant performance of her show.
My friend told me that he really loved her a lot, that he was certainly quite in love at first. He even bought a ring. For months he walked around with that ring, he always had it with him all the time and every time they went on a trip again and that was often. Because travel was my friend's hobby, that was his life, that's how he wanted to live and Princess took full advantage of that.
Every trip my friend would tell himself, "Now it's happening, now I'm going to ask her." But every time Princess showed her wrong side- every time shethrew her behaviour back into the food and my friend postponed that event ofthe proposedmarriage proposal again until the next time.
They even discussed that if they wanted to get married (if it ever came to pass) that the weddingwould take place atBora-Bora.
So it didn't happen but Princess did go there, not with my friend, that didn't happen but that one part bora-bora of the wish went on, she ended upthere.
It's been said that delay sometimes comes and that's what happened it didn't happen at all in the end and my friend probably still has the ring in the package at least if he hasn't given it to anyone else by now.
One more time he wanted to give it a chance ,he met Princess in Holland, she was there visiting a mutual acquaintance they went together to Paris where the bathroom moment took place: "I don't want togive you amoment, if I take a shower come sit with me because I love you somuch", that wasit. From there they went to Iceland for a few days, the ring isprobably still inmy friend's pocket but there was another and now for the last and ultimate final time a kink in the cable.
Princess was still in contact with a man (Rachman) from Malaysia and that was the last drop that made the bucket overflow with my friend. He felt cheated and lied to at the slightest. It was confirmation to my friend what Princess was like and how she thought. Maybe Rachman was a good reserve, but maybe it was the other way around.
In any case, that was the reason my friend immediately dropped it off on arrival in Jakarta and fled to his new girlfriend. Princess returned home in despair.
Princess later told me that this Rachman was just an acquaintance, a normal friend. If so, you don't have to sneak up and secretly chat with that friend, you don't have to make a secret of it, do you? Then you just have to be open and honest.
Princess was hurt, I can say angry and ended the relationship that she regretted again immediately afterwards because she really loved him she thought, see halaman one through seven, you know the history.
Myfriend had had it, he had met his new sweetheart by now, beautiful and sweet so my friend no longer needed Princess and that takes us back to the point in Switzerland where I came into the game.
With the ultimate meeting in hotel Melia Senayang where the final meeting (partly due to my personal and also my daughter's efforts)took place.
Where my friend made it clear to Princess that there was no future for both of them and that there would never be .
I heard him say very clearly a few times: "Idon't want to marry you". And, "I'll marry you someday."
Of course Princess was quite upset that night after my friend had been hired, she had already rented an extra room in advance in the hope that my friend had already rented an extra room after drinking the bottle of 'air doa' (she probably believed in that).
To calm her down, my daughter spent the night with Princess. There must have been a lot of discussion there while I was sleeping quietly and nicely in the large bed in the suite at hotel Mulia Selayang.
Princess has hopefully already been able to adapt sufficiently to her new more disciplinary life, Maybe her husband has been smart to go to Japan with his wife so Princess for a few months, in Japan people are very strict and life is tied to many well organized rules of life.
RB understood that Princess had attached too much to the free life she had attached to my friend and wanted to show her his way of life and to understand her.
I know and understand that it must have been a very nice and cozy period in Princess's life together with my friend.
My friend is a very nice, welcoming and endearing person and travelling the world at the time was his lifestyle and hobby.
Princess enjoyed 100% as there is no better tour leader and organizer than my friend.
She really loved my friend but she certainly loved his way of life, she must have had a hard time saying goodbye to that either.
Therefore, I think that the final adjustment to her current bound life will not be easy, she will certainly regularly think back to her time with my friend, a period that has lasted no longer than e and few years but has been very intense.
She won't lose those memories so easily- yes everything wears off, including the love that came along but the memory and stay sure if they're beautiful memories.
Even though she will do everything she can to forget about my friend, the time and experience will always be in the memory. Her way of life is changing, but will her character change?
And you don't just change her KARMA. I know my friend was some kind of advisor to her in every area, and maybe that's something she's going to miss, too.
For example, the mistakes she made recently with jewelry on Instagram that will have happened before when she was with my friend. That's a shame and definitely a loss for her.
I don't know what her husband RB is like, he's definitely and sensible someone but given his heritage maybe well protected raised and probably a lack of experience compared to my friend. Who is absolutely not selfish but has a lot of experience.
Both my friend and I, we raised ourselves for the most part, we are more hardened by street life.
I'm sure if Princess had stayed with my friend she would be much further professionally than where she is now and certainly would never have made the mistakes she makes now with my friend by her side.
I feel like I've given quite a lot of insight into what happened between Princess and myself, how the relationships were and how she treated me.
The whole thing has taken me a long time, a lot of drama that I now have serious doubts about whether it was all sincere on Princess's part.
She used me in a devious way without putting anything substantial in front of means.
She hurt me in my self-worth, because the whole thing has become a huge deception. Iput my soul and bliss into it but I got out of it much less that should.
She fooled me, fooled me, worked on my mind, used me and hurt me.
It's not a big deal, it's another experience in my life. But it's a disgrace.
I am thinking of putting the whole thing in writing again and adding it to my other book as the final chapter.
But it is not yet that far, but if I decide to do so, I will describe some things and events in more detail and not hesitate to mention the right names everywhere. I will attach a chapter on the period 2017 to 2019. About my life and what happened. I will be very open and honest in that book which will cover about 300-350 pages, I hope that I will be able to realize this soon.
Because everything in chapters -1- to this episode has been published by me in full truth and conviction, I have little to add to that at the moment.
Dit is (for now) the end of the story. I hope that many questions have been answered, that the relationship between Princess and myself is for the most part clear, and how her character developed until the end of 2018. She now has someone else by her side and hopefully his input will have a positive impact on Princess's character- I hope so for her, I hope so for them. Let's hope their marriage is and remains successful and hopefully they will have a few offspring soon, it's been awarded to them.
I apologize if I have hurt someone with my true story or that I have harmed someone, that has not been and never been my intention or intent, I just wanted to tell my story. And deny that none of this would be true.
It is an honor that so many people have wanted to read my story and I thank everyone for that as well as for the large number of most positive comments I received in different ways, both directly on my website and through the many direct messages (DM) on Instagram and through other media.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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CHAPTER -7-
Starting a count down
Many times when Princess showed another bout of apparent depression (and that was really very common, almost every day), I tried to calm her down and speak up.
I would say,
"Putriku have faith, Allah will test you, your time will come, one day you will meet a new love who will offer you everything you so desire. Be patient trust the moment of your happiness is approaching, believe me, I have experience."
And I said:
"Putriku you don't always have to take so many medications especially no sedative. The best medicine that can save you is to meet someone else, in all heartbreak the strongest medicine is to find and develop love for someone else, then all the doom and gloom will be gone in no time and you will be able to forget what you so long for now, I guarantee that!"
Despite the fact that Princess was now starting to treat less end less nice, I still had a deep sense of pity for her.
Why will you ask? Well I still felt as the adopted father in deed, a kind of replacement of her natural father and I really went out of my way, for some reason I tried better for her than ever for my natural children.
That may have something to do with my real children never interacting with me in such an overt and confidential way. I don't really lend myself to that either, but with Princess there was a spark between Princess and myself in a certain way in Switzerland.
Then she started using me as a kind of tool to get her way towards my friend and to get what SHE wanted.
The more I think about it afterwards the more I became convinced that she has a cool heart, it wasn't 100% about love, no it was about getting back what she wanted to keep what she was loosing,
Princess wasn't used to losing something Princess already possessed in her mind, something that was hers, her property. Princess was in normal life already struggling to give anything away (Princess did promise a lot) let alone that something was taken away from her, Princess really couldn't stand that.
People sometimes say that love and hate are close together like a minute before twelve and a minute past twelve, that also happened with Princess, I experienced that.
Princess could come across as very pathetic at times, very sad until a depressive state, but the other moment Princess was full of hatred towards my friend and especially his new girlfriend.
Against me, on the other hand, Princess was always steady, that apparent feeling of her towards me did not suddenly change, that came more gradually her daughter-like feeling slowly diminished as if Princess was waiting for something unusual to happen that allowed Princess to finally completely end the father-daughter relationship.
And that moment came, too, unexpectedly but as a possibility that was thrown into her lap without any difficulty, read on to understand.
I don't understand why I've been treated so humiliatingly by Princess all along, but in that particular period it didn't feel that way.
Princess had the initiative about me. Of course, she would have wanted or unwittingly influenced me because of her fame, personality as an artist and because of her manipulative character.
Lots of sweet words like: "The best father in the world" or: "The best father I ever had" and: "You are like a real father to me".
Princess glued me in all sorts of ways, also promised beautiful gifts that never came because even during Princess promised something like this to me she had already forgotten it at the same time. Although I'm still waiting, actually, the mail between Indonesia and the Netherlands doesn't seem to be going very fast.
Honestly I must mention that once I received a gift from her, a luxurious unisex packaging perfume from the brand Maison Francis Kurkdjian Paris.
In the end, however, Princess dropped me like a heavy stone, no Princess did not drop the stone, Princess threw the stone as far away as possible. Just like my friend predicted.
While I used a lot of fatherly feelings and with the investment of such a lot of time, experience and wisdom I have helped her through a difficult and the most saddest period in her life.
Princess had no one else just me "Aya angkat" her help from my heart. Whenever Princess needed me I was there, I was always ready, the phone was almost stuck to my ear if I did not answer immediately then Princess was outraged even if Princess sent me a message Princess expected a prompt response.
I wasn't a domestic helper, but I was the help of the heart and the mind. I really put Princess through the deadlock with everything I could. But she's not grateful for that, she loathes me afterwards.
I certainly expected an apology, but it's too late for that by now.
In this story I shine my light over what was really happening between her and me because I feel obliged to denounce Princess's accusations that I would lie and fantasize.
I can prove that I have always told the truth.
I have never wanted to throw everything open on the table but now I have been forced by the attitude of Princess as well as various people around her to open up to clear my good name.
The last word has not yet been spoken about the video phone call from Princess's 'best' girlfriend to me, in which Princess, her husband sister and others were present (I have that from a reliable source).
They accused me for various serious offends, recorded it and published the whole video conversation on the internet in particular Instagram. What they did then is absolutely prohibited against the laws in force in Europe. The case is under investigation and could have far-reaching consequences for those involved.
On August 8th when Princess returned from Los Angeles I received a Whats App message (see appendix) from Princess with the following line:
"Papa I found someone he is good please pray for me".
However, Princess initially used initials KC and later CK in some posts on Instagram, which could mean that Princess used initials that represent the letters of someone's name.
It took some detective work and with the help of insiders I ended up on someone whose normal initials are RB.
It turned out that Princess was not yet there to use the real initials of this new love. That may not have been possible and should not be in connection with RB's history with his then-fiancee.
But Princess wanted to show something in all her naivety that she had found a new love, which is why Princess took the last two letters of his family name. Initially Princess made a spelling error (KC) but later Princess adjusted it to CK.
On 1 September 2018 Princess sends me another message (see appendix) that Princess wanted to take a trip through Europe with her new love after her concert (10 years Princess on 20/09/2018) That was a month and 12 days after I received the first message (08/08/2018). Her sister later tried to disprove my information by phone saying Princess had been dating someone else for a month therefore that wasn't RB. It was someone else according to her however she refused to give that other name to me, apparently there was nobody else of course seeing the initials.
Officially, it's called that Princess and RB only met on the show, so on 20/09/2018 well excuse me but in my opinion there is something wrong. Especially since RB once made a slip of the tongue itself during an interview on TV to which Princess reacted with shock and corrected him very swift.
That deserves clarification. I'm going to add the WA history of those days hereafter.
Perhaps this is also a reason that my invitation for tht biggest show ever was not acted upon, in a VIP seat of “honor” next to Princess's mother, front row, it did not happen.
I was no longer needed. I knew too much, of course in fact I represented her former ‘love for ever’. I obviously wasn't welcome on the big show anymore. I didn't hear anything about it again, I was the big absentee, I was sorry.
I felt hugely abused by my anak angkat at the time and for whom I had tried so hard. I comforted her over and over again, listened fatherly, cried with her and laughed together, day and night everywhere, anytime, and now I feel dumped like a brick in murky water.
Actually for me quite suddenly Princess got married but Aya angkat was not invited.
Through that I learned her true nature, her real character.
In fact what I told her it finally and truly came through: “The best medicine will be an other love”.
And that happened although I am still in some doubt how she can change in such a short period the “love of her life” in on other love of her life.
Anyhow it happened an in a way I’m happy for her.
Because in according the story what her sister told me, within a period of about two months, she found a love what lasted a month and shortly thereafter she found an other one (RB). Does that mean that RB is second or third choice?
Well, the Princess maybe was hopefully and possibly happy and all the previous problems were left behind. Good for her, finally what Princess and her family so longed for, Princess had found a man and apparently a good party the son of a conglomerate.
After that, things went quiet around my adopted daughter at least as far as I was concerned. There was no contact anymore possible she had two reasons: 1/She was angry because I was invited and stayed with my good friend and: 2/She found someone else and she did not need me anymore.
A year passed by, it became November 2019 , towards the end of that month I received several times a call from an unknown number, anonymously usually I never answer such calls. After at least five or six times in a row I thought it might be urgent and the keeper finally wins so I answered the call. I was told an unexpected thing. The conversation went something like this:
>"Are you mister Laurens?
<"Who is speaking?
>"I am a journalist from Indonesia and I am in Europe, I would like to >speak to you
<"What is it about?
>"It may be important to you mister Laurens
<"Yes but why do you want to speak to me and how do you
<get my number?
>"When I meet you I will explain everything but do not want to talk too >much over the phone.
Yes I thought why not I was curious, so we made an appointment to meet in the lobby of hotel Hilton in Schiphol airport.
So I went there in early December at the agreed time. I found three people there, two from Indonesia and one from Belgium. After a bit of back and forth in Indonesian language, the monkey came out of the sleeve (Then the truth came out).
They had heard, but wouldn't say from who, that I had a certain kind of relationship with Princess.
They knew there was "Aya Angkat." relationship. We spoke Indonesian because one of the two spoke very little English and my Indonesian according to them was very very good which I still doubt it by myself. The point was that as journalists they wanted to make a story about Princess during the last few years before she met her current husband. The two had serious doubts that Princess had only met her husband for the first serious time sometime in September 2018. They obviously had different information and wanted to know from me how I felt about that. Immediately, of course, the Whats App conversation of August 2018 came to my mind. But I didn't say a thing about that during that conversation.
They asked if I had kept any correspondence or anything like that and I confirmed I had some from a certain date. They wanted to buy that along with my personal memories that would be recorded according to direct interviews and Skype contact.
Those people wanted something on the spot, but I refused.
For example, I was offered a considerable amount in Euros but they did not want to give me their name, possibly company or the magazine they worked for because they wanted to prevent me from immediately calling Princess after the conversation and they could not and would not take that risk. I, of course, felt stepped on my toes (I felt offended) and I said to them:
“So you want to buy information from me about my 'anak angkat' when I don't even know who I'm talking to yet”. The answer:
"We make a contract that the gentleman from Belgium who is a lawyer will put together and in addition we will disclose everything, who we are and what we are."
"And the payment?" I asked
"We will deposit the amount in the hands of this Mr. Lawyer and once everything we expect to receive is delivered, you can dispose of it."
I thought it was a weird story, whereas those people looked neat and serious I had little faith in it.
We agreed that I would think about it for a while and that I would be ready for a decission in two days.
The amount that was mentioned would be somewhere around 30,000, - Euro. That attracted me because I really could use that money. They wanted to agree for a second meeting in two days time but I said:
“Better you call me first”.
They agreed to that and promised to call me in two days again.
On the way back home I thought about this carefully and I already knew that I couldn't get something like this over my heart.
And then who and what were they really, maybe they weren't at all that they wanted me to believe, maybe something else was going on.
I had experienced how Princess could think and manipulate and what problems Princess had made against my friend and his current girlfriend to get her away.
I hesitated on both sides, both right and left.
I decided to call Princess, after all, had 4 different phone numbers of her. None of them worked, maybe I was already out or she had closed them. When I got home I thought, "Know what I'll send a Direct Message via Instagram".
That’s what I did but there came no response to it.
Princess her response came a few weeks later.
Princess sent that not to me but to my daughter Lauren.
Unfortunately, I can't find the DM I sent anymore probably because Princess deleted everything or because she blocked me everywhere. That's a shame because the message I sent was informative and meant to warn my anak angkat that there were people looking for a story about her.
I didn't go into it, wanted it for the money but couldn't get it over my heart at that time.
A few weeks later however Princess suddenly sent a nasty message to my daughter Lauren a little menacing.
Not understandingly.
I wrote an answer and also asked my daughter to forward it. (See annexes).
I have never received confirmation that my message has been forwarded, nor has it been confirmed whether a reply from Princess has emerged.
I cannot understand why Princess, after everything that has happened between us and everything I have done, has the courage to send a message to my daughter that is clearly addressed to me but also contains something threatening to my daughter kandung (see annex).
I've wondered many times, how come I could get so under the influence of someone I didn't really know well?
Was it because she was a diva in her homeland? Because Princess was beautiful? Is she really beautiful?
I had absolutely no feelings that were fueled by romance, under no circumstances.
Is Princess naturally beautiful? There are earlier images of Princess where Princess does not excel at beauty.
No, it wasn't all that. I just wanted to help her and even in such a way that I often turned against on my good friend, for her, to help her through this impasse in her life.
It's because of her all-conquering character. She has an emotional quality so that Princess knows initiative, feels how Princess has to play someone, young or old, man or woman. That's her great strength, I think she can be a very good presenter.
Of course, everyone is born unscathed in character, clean and new. After birth, there are many influences that form a character. First, the parents, then the other family members, brothers, sisters, uncles aunts, cousins, cousins, neighbors, playmates, teachers/teachers at school. Fellow pupils, friends and acquaintances, boy or girlfriends, loves, romances, adventures etc. etc.
Everyone who is associated with them, even individuals and some animals that are only met once, affect our future lives.
That is exactly what I think happened with Princess. She ended up in show business, after what Princess once told me
Hher father had already mapped that out for her.
She had to become an artist – singer and Princess did that as it turned out with verve.
She had it in her and made herself that own.
Princess ended up in a world where Princess was wanted and loved. Many wanted something from her and everyone took advantage of her. But she was not naïve, she could see that, Princess noticed it.
Princess personally benefited 100% from that.
She sang a song and all the people around her did the rest. She commanded and everyone obeyed, why?
Because all the people in her circle made money from her or at least wanted to make money from her or at least through her.
Princess himself once wrote in a Whats App message to me: "My family depends on me." And I suppose that was indeed the case when Princess wrote that.
Her sister is her manager under the name events agency or something but it does not mention that she represent only one artist being her older sister Princess, she arranges the bookings together with a team and everything that goes with it.
Probably sister does that very well because sister (P) receives 35% of the recette after what I heard and that is unheard quite high.
But as long as Princess can live with it, it's okay.
Be that as it may, in such an environment everyone is docile to the person who brings in the money, which is normal because they all live on it.
That is a cardinal point because of that Princess has become what Princess is today. Her character is shaped,
Princess is very much use to: everyone does what SHE wants, including her friends and acquaintances, who hang on her lips, arranges everyone for Princess, who makes up the service. As long as Princess keeps singing songs, that's fine.
But beware when the career comes to a standstill and to an end, contemporary glory is soon "faded glory."
That is why it is good that Princess is now married to a docile man because when her glory days are over, most other men will very quickly look at her differently than they have to date and many so-called friends will disappear.
Besides, Princess isn't the youngest either anymore. Princess is the only woman I know with officially different ages, will be Princess 41 next August 1st or only reach that age in 2023? I don't know either.
It's not important, most women like to reduce their real age by a few years and some men too. I know a lady who is already seven years 50...
I not I'm 81. Born on the 14e of June 1940 in a church…..
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CHAPTER -6-
A PRINCESS'S NIGHTMARE